Halloween… A Wedding Day?Posted: October 31, 2013
New International Version (NIV)
20 So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds in the sky and all the wild animals.
But for Adam no suitable helper was found. 21 So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and then closed up the place with flesh. 22 Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.
23 The man said,
“This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called ‘woman,’ for she was taken out of man.”
24 That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.
25 Adam and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.
Today my daughter will marry… It is Oct.31, a day she has always loved. She loves to dress up in costumes, she loves to make-believe, she loves to be a clown and make others smile. She has chosen this day to be her special day, the day she becomes a wife, a clown, a mother and a special character in other people’s lives… Today, I will not only give her away to another man, I will also perform the ceremony and legalities to make their marriage acceptable in the eyes of the world.
I know Halloween gets a lot of media attention in the Church. Is it a pagan holiday that has been Christianized? How do we handle it to allow Christians to participate, without compromising with the evil in the world? ..and such and so. …As with most things man tries to decide for himself, we are left with more questions than answers and no agreement one with another. This is not really a post about Halloween so I will not attempt to answer those questions. I will say this, we spend many hours in the Church today discussing and considering subjects that the Bible and therefore God is silent on in His instructions to mankind. We spend much less time reviewing and discussing the subjects that are addressed and revealed in God’s word.
Marriage is one of those things which deserves much more thought and attention than it receives. It is one of the Great Mysteries of Heaven and Earth. Very misunderstood and mistreated by the modern world and a secularized church… most of it’s original symbolism, intentions and messages lost and forgotten, in ceremony, prompt and pageantry… Marriage is a symbol, a picture of God (Jesus) and His union with His Creation Bride (Church) much more than it is about the union of one man with one women… It is more accurately a picture of division and reunion than it is about human love and procreation.
We often miss the point that before there was ‘man and woman’ there was the One Man (Adam or Ish) who was divided into two entities, male and female, Ish and Isha in Hebrew, who were then rejoined or reunited by a Divine Father figure.
Maybe they were twins? One cell divided into two parts or two individuals in one womb? I don’t really know and that is why marriage is a mystery.. much, much more to it than we see!
As with most spiritual mysteries we tend to put our focus on our (man’s) part in the mystery and then we ritualize it and write our own version of it and our own laws to govern it and we overlook God’s part in it altogether except to ask Him to bless what we have turned it into.
Well, I really must go now. I would love to stay and discuss this mysterious sacrament that has been handed down to us from the beginning of the world as we know it, but I must go and prepare for a wedding with trick or treating and a New Family Fellowship meal afterwards. I know it is not traditional but hey, do we know that for sure? Anyway, one thing we can know for sure is this, God blessed them and commissioned them to increase and multiply and fill the earth, so let’s get on with it…
Love in Him!
New International Version (NIV)
26 Then God said, “Let us make mankind in our image, in our likeness, so that they may rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky, over the livestock and all the wild animals, and over all the creatures that move along the ground.”
27 So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.
28 God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground.”
29 Then God said, “I give you every seed-bearing plant on the face of the whole earth and every tree that has fruit with seed in it. They will be yours for food. 30 And to all the beasts of the earth and all the birds in the sky and all the creatures that move along the ground—everything that has the breath of life in it—I give every green plant for food.” And it was so.
31 God saw all that he had made, and it was very good. And there was evening, and there was morning—the sixth day.
CONGRATULATIONS …. I love you BOTH and all your new family too!